Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Imana's Question

Impu went with my cousine to ground there some kids were playing Football.. She saw for 5 mins and she asked her why kids are fighting for a single ball... Come we will go and tell them not to fight...

Monday, May 30, 2011

Proud of my Hubby!!!

Hi,

My hubby was busy with Job fair for disable last week. He used to come to home at 12AM... We had a worst time I can say...

He was telling me everyday that busy with jobfair jobfair... I never bothered about it I neglected it and busy with Impu and my work. Saturday Impu was not here in Bangalore so I was feeling very much bore... Called my hubby he said again Jobfair... He called me many times before that come and join but I never ever interested in his work or his business...

Then finally I decided will go... I called him again and said I am coming he was soooooooo happy (I can feel that)... He said shall I send car...I said no need will come by auto... Took bath slowly and got ready, locked the home and took auto and went to Chowdaiah Memorial Hall, Malleshwaram, Bangalore.

Got down from auto and called my hubby he said come inside I saw many police people are standing there, One AMBULANCE was standing then in my own world I went and saw, I was in diffrent and came to a different world I can say :)...

There was a shamiyana and many people are coming from diffrent areas, diffrent cities... Initially i didnt not get anything within 5mins I got what they are doing actually. Then my hubby expalined me what exactly is that. Then I was really happy and entu to do somthing. Took some initiative like registring the diable candidated who came for interview. Then sent those kids to screen after screen they were so many companies came example Airtel, Bosch etc for recruitment.

They arranged breakfask and lunch for all the candidates. There was a welcome speach Malati Holla, Atul Mittal came there as a chifeguest. There was a songs by Ideal Blinds. They sang very nicely and beautifully.

Wholeday it was I was there helped many people. Took some interviews. Arround 270 People came for the interview in that arround 53 got offer there itself. 70 got shortlisted and for remaining people these arranged some trainings.

Now I am really proud of my Hubby. Many media people took interview. It was done by "Avishkaar" (My hubby's companay) and "Heath add".

There is an article came in times below is the link. Check it out!!

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/bangalore/Corporates-come-in-to-hunt-for-talents-among-disabled/articleshow/8633067.cms
Dont no whom to belive in this world!!

One of my hubby's cosine sister (My mil's own sis's daughter). She is working as a primary school teacher. Last week she called to my hubby and telling somthing... I didnt care that much and didnt ask also what is the matter as I was busy with Impu and cooking...

Next day again she called to my hubby and both were discussing for long time... Then I asked what is the matter. Then he told me some problem with her hubby need to do somthing and he was busy with some Jobfair for diable people(Will write separe blog about that). He said you call her and check what exactly happend he just gave the overview what has happend.Evening I called her and asked what happened.

She told me he stays in Bangalore and she is Raiture dist working as a teacher. Now she is having 7th boy kid. He is not looking after nicely he use to tell I am not getting salary please give me ATM card. Both completed 3yrs of marriage life. She is very very innocent she gave her ATM card to her hubby. He used to send to some money for her expenditure... She took some 70K loan to buy some vehicle for hubby. She gave all her salary to hubby... She didnt buy anything for herself.

He always used to say i didnt get salary... She doubted him always but she had some softcorner one day he will change and lookafter her...

2yrs back she has holidays for 2 months so she forced him that she will come here in bangalore and stay he refused it seem even then she didnt leave so he took a rented house at Hoskote(He works in ShivajiNagar but stays at Hoskote) she went and stayed there for 1 month. He told her it seems he is staying with frd...

What I did, I took some information about him like his cell no, where he was working, present company Name. Wednesday morning I called him and asked(like a consultancy) are you looking for a change he said yes... I said good... I asked him can you give me some information like salary, current and previour comapny and how many years of exp etc. He gave all info with patience hoping he will get job. Actually we wanted his home address which I forgot to ask him. Then I called my hubby and said everything I took but forgot to take his home address. He said call him again tell him that will send some application you need to fill and send it back can you please give me ur home address. Again I called him and said the same as hubby said and took his address.

Then Thursday afternoon she and my mom in law came to Banglore... My hubby sent his car... At 3PM they came near my office to pick me... I took her to the his company where he was working(Last month he resigned there) and enquire wether he was working there or not. Initially they refused to give details then I requested and told she is his wife she is in trouble then they said OKAY. We were so happy. They sent us to HR dept. We checked that he was getting salary correctly. She felt very bad and started crying I said he might be having some other proble so he may lied u... Dont worry... then she stopped crying... We came and told to my mom in law.

Then she told I want to goto his home I said OK. We took her to hoskote which i almost 30 to 35 KM from banergatta road. We went and enquired in a veg shop they showed the house went to owners house and enquired she said yes that named person stays here with his family... I was shocked and came back near the car and told her u have be storng now this is happend... She statred crying I said dont cry we are there will go and meet him. She said Ok she took her kid (7 month old) by the time i called my hubby and told that he is married he said I will come and he started from Navrang.

We went me, Driver anna and she with kid. He was sitting on steps and feeding his 1st child who is 3yrs old now. She went and asked what are you doing here he was shocked and didnt speak a single word. His first wife was also in shock beco she was not aware he was married. She started crying. Then all were silent like pin drop silent. Then I started and blasted him like anything. He didnt had a feeling that he did the mistake. Then my hubby came he asked what is this he said i did the mistake do what ever u want. Then i said dont leave him will call media and police... Even then he didnt scared. We spoke till 11:30PM Impu was waiting for me paapa... then it waste of energy to speaking to him then she said plz dont call police and media I have to stay alone she was scared so much then I kept quite and came back home.

Next day morning they went to there native talked to his parents they said all dowery will be returned but not yet decided about the future of kid and mom.

Dont no whom to belive in this world.


Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Working moms problem!!!

Recently my friend resigned(I felt really bad she is very close to my heart I used to share each and evrything, i used to advise her she used to advise me...)
Jun 3rd is her last day... She resigned becase no one is there to lookafter her one and half year baby. Her inlaws dont want to stay here and her mom is not feeling well. She dont want to leave her baby in day care... So she decided to resign...

One day I was going in Volvo bus... Some ladies came and sat beside me and stared chatting I am facing so much problem to look after my baby. Planning to resign... Other lady started my mom inlaw is doing like this and that planning to resign... Really it is a difficult phase for working moms. In this costly world leading life is very difficult. And women wanted to be independent but some way or the other it is not possible.

I really appriciate moms and inlwas who is taking care of grandchildren.

In this I feel very lucky because my mom is here to take care of Impana very nicely and I never think about Impu whwn I will be at office. My mom is giving her all love and care on behalf of me also... Thanks is not a word to wish my mom.

Thanks Amma I love u...

Let me start!!

Let me start!!

Let me start with the blog today... So many things are there to write... Hope all will like it... Actually I am scared to write... Many people have already started writing... I used to read blogs whenever I am free that time I used to think why I cannot write... Created the blog long back but posting the blog today...

Thanks,
Shilpa